Fakhir
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Asalamualaikum , hope you are well and may Allah reward you, there’s a few scenarios I want you to put me in peace in writing, I already went on a molvi for shariah council but I just wanted to clarify on writing so im mentioning the full story, here are a few things said:I had no intention for any I just wanted to talk to her or just wanted her to listen to me
1. I said to my wife: “Come here or you are divorced.” She came I think after a small hesitation and then walked away. I feel like she came instantly but I’m not sure. I’m worried as I never said for her to keep on walking with me once she comes next to me but I did want that but she walked away after fulfilling. Please clarify regarding the fact she didn’t keep walking ?
2. In the first situation, I am not sure if I also said “right now.” If I did say that and she came after a short hesitation, is that nothing to worry about please can you answer this hypothetically?
3. I said: “Give me your phone password or you are divorced.” She refused/ kept hesitating at first, but then gave it within 5–15 minutes. Closer to 5, i just wanted to phone passwoed in that day I think specifically thought within today I only wanted the password, not divorce. Does the fact she hesitated and refused for a while do anything?
4. I don’t actually remember this but I’m not sure but My wife says (although she’s not even fully sure) that I once said: “Come down right now or you are divorced.” She says she went on her phone first, then came down. I remember she came down when I asked within a reasonable time according to me and I didn’t worry or be scared , but I’m scared as she told me she went on her phone If I did say this, would that be a divorce? I never ever said anything or thought about her going on her phone I just wanted her to come downstairs and she came like a normal time. Please May you answer hypothetically regarding the fact she went on her phone?
5. I think I might have said: “Open the gate or you are divorced.” But I honestly don’t remember if I said this, or if she even opened the gate. Does this count as divorce? She said she opened the gate and again I don’t think she’s even sure if I said it, just please May you answer me hypothetically.
6. There was CCTV in that place on the gate, and I once tried to get the footage to check If she opened the gate, but the establishment they didn’t give it to me. The incident happened over a year ago and I tried to get the footage over a year ago and since then we have moved properties in the same town Should I try harder to get it, or should I stop worrying about it?
I never wanted anything to do with leaving in any of this I just wanted to talk to her and never had any intention of divorce Please May you help me out and may Allah reward you.
