Imaan / 'Aqaaid

Assalamu Alaykum

For over 10 years I have encountered compulsive thoughts. Initially this manifested itself in pre-occupation with cleanliness, and now the obsession has taken on a further dimension in that every statement or action is analysed for kufr or divorce.

Below is a detailed description of the cleanliness issues I have encountered.

1. Initially I would not touch door handles without some form of barrier between my hand and the door handle; the reason being I feared contamination by germs. I have now overcome this compulsion.
2. There is a room at my parents� house designated for Salah. If anyone walked in the room with shoes or walked with bare feet from an area requiring shoes I would not read Salah in that room. I would regularly wash the carpet and this practice has followed me to my own house.
3. If clothes have been hanging up for sometime and I can�t recall whether they are clean or not, I put them in the wash.
4. I despise any person that walks bare footed in an area where shoes are normally worn.
5. When performing wudhu I make a firm resolution not to wash my hands more than three times. Islamically and logically I know this is correct. However an overwhelming compulsion forces me to wash more than thrice. If I don�t, the mental repercussions are grave, i.e. I will feel that everything I touch thereafter has become unclean and will end up washing those items too. In addition, I will not end up praying Salah because I would find it uncomfortable.
6. When performing istinja, I will wipe the toilet seat with a wet tissue. Again, logically I know my wife is not unclean but I feel compelled to wipe the toilet seat with a wet tissue. I then wash the toilet cup. The reason for this is that many a time my wife just runs her hand for literally a second under the tap. I feel as if though the toilet cup is unclean and hence I wash the outside and the inside 14 times.
7. If I go to the gym and touch the equipment or the mat and then drive home I feel compelled to wash my hands and dry them. If I don�t dry them and touch the steering wheel I feel my hands may have become unclean as the steering wheel may be made from pigskin. There is no definitive way of determining whether or not my car steering wheel is made from pigskin. Further, if I touch the car steering wheel without washing my hands, then I feel as if though the germs from the gym equipment or the mat have transferred to my car steering wheel. I will therefore wash my hands and then wipe the steering wheel with a wet tissue and wait for it to dry. This will often make me late for Salah. If I don�t perform these �rituals� the mental torture is unbearable and often does lead to further cleaning �rituals� which results in physical and mental exhaustion.
8. When performing istinja I rub my private part 101 times to remove all trace of urine. After doing so I still feel as though a drop has come out. After having spent at least 5 minutes performing wudhu, I often find that a drop has come out. This makes me frustrated and angry and leads to questioning of Islam in my heart. Since I know that verbally uttering such sentiments can lead to kufr I walk around frustrated and angry as I have no avenue to channel my frustration.
9. If anyone performs wudhu at my house and walks with wet feet across a floor where shoes are normally worn and then enters the room for Salah, I will end up washing the carpet when they leave.
10. If any part of my body is wet and I touch a painted wall or door then I feel my body would have become unclean as the paint on the wall may have been administered by a paintbrush made from pig bristles.
11. After passing stool I am incapable of performing istinja on the toilet as the sound of water splashing in the pan makes me feel that water has bounced off the surface of the toilet pan on to my body. I therefore wash thrice on the toilet and then go in the shower.
12. If I have to use the toilet at the Masjid and the slippers are wet I begin to wonder whether it is water or urine. Therefore I carefully remove my trousers so that my feet don�t touch my trousers. If they do, then I wash the affected area of my trousers in the wudhu khana, hence I miss Salah.
13. If a tap has been touched by someone else, who has not washed their hands properly; I will wash my hands, close the tap and stimulate the tap for remaining water in the system to wash the germs off.
14. Recently I have been carrying out a thorough investigation of my shoes and that of my wife�s so that I can ascertain whether they are made from pigskin. This can be a painstaking task and has led me to question, in my heart, the onerous duties of Islam.
15. When performing ghusl I wash a maximum 7 times but then feel compelled to wash more when I see water from my body rebounding of the shower curtain or the bathroom tiles on to me.
16. At Fajr time, it takes me 15 minutes to perform wudhu because I feel compelled to pass water all over my head because I am not unsure where my hands have been at night.
17. I use a separate towel to my wife. If I have any inkling that she may have used my towel, I put it in the wash.
18. If someone walks bare feet in an area where shoes are normally worn and then reads Salah on a prayer mat I use, I will wash that prayer mat as I will feel uncomfortable reading Salah on that mat.
19. If my hand sweats whilst driving I feel that my hand has become unclean because of sweat transfer to a steering wheel containing pigskin.

The kufr thoughts began in 2004 after Hajj when I started reading articles published by Majlisul Ulama (South Africa). I began to recall statements I made in Hajj whilst encountering some of the aforementioned issues. I stated that �I don�t want to be here, I want to go home, I can�t take this anymore and I don�t feel like praying.�

My intention was not to reject Hajj but the Majlisul Ulama concluded that this constituted kufr. All other scholars that were consulted concluded that this did not constitute kufr.

Part of my compulsion, especially in matters of kufr, is to consult other scholars. Without this consultation I always feel there is some doubt. At times this leads to confusion because of differing answers, but no matter how determined I am I keep failing and end up consulting more than one scholar.

In the last few years I have asked over 500 questions regarding whether a particular thought, utterance or action constitutes kufr.

It is rich of people to say I have not tried. This judgement cannot be made until they have met with me or lived with me. Everyday I wake up with a firm resolution/intention not to entertain thoughts and to perform wudhu, ghusl and istinja in accordance with the Sunnah. The thoughts are so overpowering that I inevitably fail. I have even set myself time limits and made timetables, which have all proved futile. Some people think harshness is the answer to the issue. I say, continue being harsh. It has not helped to date, but for some people it is their default position on every issue.

The breaking point came on Saturday when I was reading Salah with full concentration and devotion and a genuine doubt occurred as to whether I had performed masah. I told myself, �it�s done.� The over powering thought then came to my mind that: �if you continue to perform Salah when there is a strong doubt regarding the legitimacy of your wudhu, is this not tantamount to kufr?� I gave up performing the Salah and did not perform witr either.

Saturday was the breaking point. I have since been in bed virtually all day and have given up reading Salah or performing any deeni actions as I find it too burdensome. Even though I have felt positive over the last 24 hours and could perform Salah, I have convinced myself, don�t bother, there is no point, i.e. I have fought hard and tried to be positive but the reality is that I will start reading Salah and after a few days I will be back to square 1. I therefore may as well give up and continue sitting in bed all day as this way I have less thoughts and don�t have to undergo the burden of performing wudhu, istinja or ghusl. In addition, I will continue with a life of disobedience.

In addition, there is a misguided notion that I function normally when it comes to worldly matters. Well think again, I have not worked now for at least a month and prior to that I have worked unproductively.

Herein lies the conundrum. At this point, I have an overwhelming urge to say explicitly that I give up Islam as this sentiment is now strongly etched in to my heart. Secondly, I have condemned the Ulama in my heart. However I do not have the courage to verbally utter such a thing although I am not far off from doing so.

What is preventing me from getting out of bed is the thought that, in my heart I have rejected Islam so what is the point? I feel that I should re-enter Islam and re-perform nikah but this is not feasible as my wife will not accede to such a request as she has been through so much turmoil as it is. She will refuse on the basis that I have an issue and that if she accedes to my request of re-performing nikah, how many more times will it happen in the future?

For me, if she does not re-perform nikah I will feel as if I am committing adultery and what�s the point of an adulterer performing any good deeds as none of them will be accepted?

The only way out seems to be suicide and I don�t have the courage for that either.

These issues are constant and have shaped my personality, who I am and how I think. I walk around with a burden on my shoulders at all times.

Anyway the question remains (as is always the case), based on what I have said above

HAVE I COMMITTED KUFR ALREADY AND, IF SO, WHERE DO I GO FROM HERE?

If there is a Muslim whose parents or friends are non Muslims .If parents or friends die he feels grief and prays for them that may God send them in heaven will this act will make him kafir(non Muslim) or he has committed a sin but sill but still is a Muslim.
I have posted different question but the main question behind the all is that what are acts that make a Muslim a non Muslim .Is it only when a person deliberately leaves Islam and become Non Muslim or certain unislamic acts can make him non Muslim while he has no intention of leaving his religion

Assalam-o-alaikum,

Respested Mufti Sahab !

i want to ask a question about "hisaab kitaab" on the day of qayamah. there are some Ahadees which says that some people will go to Jannah without "hisaab kitaab". at the same time there are ayaat in Quran which says that there must be "hisaab kitaab" of everyone. i am in discussion with one of my friend who said that Ahadees on this issue are not true as Allah clearly said in Quran that there must be hisaab kitaab of everyone, and he said that Ahadees which seems to be in conflict with Qurani ayaat should be rejected. please guide me on this issue.

wassalaam,
farooqi.

Respected Mufti Sahab

Assalam o Alaikum

Quran speeks of one Shaitan i-e Iblees? Then how come Shaitan effects billions of people at the same time? We believe only Allah SWT is omini-present, right. Then Shaitan doesnt have the power to be present at more than one place at one time. Then how come he misguides billions at the same time?
If Shaitan is one, and rest are his disciples-- then how many does he have? how did he make them believe in him and not in Allah.. As far as my knowledge, Quran mentions that Allah only gave Iblees the permission to try to misguide humans.. not to his disciplines.

Please clarify this confusion.

Jazaak Allah

Assalaamualakum Warahmatullhi Wabarakatuh
How do I increase my hope in Allah(swt)? I have negative feelings so many times, I am always scared, even after I repent. I try to ponder on His mercy, for verily, His mery oevrpowers his anger, and that staisfies me for a while, then I feel scared again and like crying and as if I'll never be a good muslim and that im a failure. please help me, and tell me a way to gain a closer relationship with Allah Talaa.

Asalamu Alaykum,

Say a muslim commited major shirk, felt all his iman and amal go from him, and then after that became terrified and repented, would Allah accept his repentance?
Is the person able to have imaan (proper imaan again?) if so can he earn good deeds again? And what happens if he was very worried about what happened to him that he tried to exactly explain what happened to him to a brother, but in the process he falls into Major shirk again?, but if someone was to ask him who is your God he would say Allah because he knows Allah is God.

Salam

Is it permisable to name a child Wajid as this is one of the sifaat of Allah. In Question 591 Mufti sb. talks about Rehman and Raheem does the hurmat apply to all the sifaat. If it does what about Ali (ra) as this is also from the sifaat of Allah. Please clarify.

R the muftis on this site the followers of deoband school or imam ahmed raza's school

Dear Sir,My question is regarding Calling of humans on the day of judgment(Qiaamat), either they will be called by their mother's name or father's name.Regards

is it necessary for a muslim to know about the prophets family and companions, and why?

will this be helpful on the day of judgement?

Dear brother,
I need the definition of Haram (forbidden). Whether only a clear verse in Quran can make something Haram? If there is no such a verse in Quran, then, whether Ahadeeth, can also make things Haram? If there is no Ayah in Quran but there are pro and con Ahadeeth and thus Fuqaha are also divided on a matter; in this case whether one should take safe side to announce it is Haram? Or it is Mabah as Ebaha is the principle? Thanks and regards, Hajir

Assalam alaikum!

My question is,
1)why do many people say that im shafi n im hanafi. why their way of praying vitr is differnt. should'nt we pray like Hazrat Muhammad (SAW) or should we follow them?

2) The way men pray namaz is differnt then women? if yes, but heard i heard that Hazrat Muhammad (saw) said pray namz as you see me prayin. but the only differnce is , women should cover their whole body.what abt Sajda?

I hope im clear.
Fe Aman Allah

Respected Mufti Sahab

Assalam-o-Alai-kum
Allah SWT Says that only He is eternal and La-fani, rest is all Fani. But it is also mentioned that Jannat, Jahannum and life in the hereafter will be forever i-e Lafani.

Plz clear this confusion

Jazaak Allah

Fahad

AS-SALAAM-O-ALAIKUM!
what is the difference between zaicha and istikhaara?zaicha is that it is taken by the calculation of your name and mother name,and the person name(from whom you want to be married) and his/her mother name.my question is that if we done istikhaara and the answer is come that the person is better for you.and on other hand if we done zaicha then the answer is come" your stars are not meet with each other.then what will do?we go with istikhaara or zaicha? is there any quote of zaicha in quran?please explain me! i am very oblige to you!

Respected Mufti Sahab

Assalam-o-Alai-Kum

Is it true that one of our Believes is that the Khalifa should be a Qureshi based on a Hadith of the Prophet?

If true, wts the Hikmah behind this.
And how can it be defended against the argument that Islam is above all castes, creeds, tribes, etc and the only differentiating factor is Taqwah

Jazaak Allah

Fahad

Respected Mufti Sahab

Assalam-o-Alai-Kum

Huzoor (SAW) said that Hazrat Hasan (RAW) and Hazrat Hussain (RAW) are the leaders of the young in the Paradise "Syeda Shabbabe Ahle Jannh"
Question is when all people in Jannah will be of the same age i-e 33 then there will be no question of young and old there? then wts the real meaning of this Hadith.

Jazaak Allah

Fahad

Assalamu Alaikum Warahmatullahi Wabarakatuh

May Allah swt reward you in the hereafter for all your hard work.

I was wondering what the difference is between bralveys and sunnis who follow the four imams. My workplace is full of bralveys and they tell me that they are on the right path and that celebrating the prophets peace be upon him's birthday is right (astakfruglah), and they say that the the prophet peace be upon him's uncle (who was a kaffer) celebrated his birth by freeing a slave (may allah swt forgive me for my translation). Can you explain this to me as I am confused and would like to tell them the correct method.

I was always told that you should read and follow the holy quran and follow the sunnah of our beloved prophet peace be upon him and his sahaba's.

Jazakallah khaire

Walaikum Asalaam

Asalam-u-Alaikum,
I want to ask are the salfis same as wahabis. If not then who are whabis.

Is our beloved prophet(sm) dead or still in a functional state?

The love of Allah SWT and His Beloved Rasool SAW is not instilled in the heart except by recognising them and knowing about them. this special love and connection is derived from the pious company of the wali ullah. brothers can do this by sitting in their company, but how can sisters gain this suhbah?