Rasulullah (Sallallaahu 'alayhi wasallam) said: 'May the curse of Allah Ta'ala be upon the one who casts lustful glances as well as the one who emerges in such a manner that lustful glances are cast at one.'
Sunan Ibn Majah Chapter No: 1, The Book of the Sunnah
Hadith no: 114
Narrated: Ali rz.a
"The Unlettered Prophet informed me (saying) that none but a believer would love me and none but a hypocrite would hate me." (Sahih)
The Prophet (صلى الله عليه وسلم) rarely left a gathering without saying this dua for his Companions: "O Allah, give us a share of fear of You that will keep us from disobeying You... and grant us revenge over those who have wronged us, and grant us victory over those who are hostile towards us." (Tirmidhi)
The Prophet (صلى الله عليه وسلم) said: "Do not backbite about the Muslims, and do not seek out their faults. For whoever seeks out their faults, Allah will seek out his faults, and if Allah seeks out a person's faults He will expose him even in his own house.'" (Bukhari)
"It is better to sit alone than in company with the bad; and it is better still to sit with the good than alone.
It is better to speak to a seeker of knowledge than to remain silent; but silence is better than idle words."
The Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) said: "If you knew what I know, you would laugh little and weep much." In Fath al-Baari it says: "What is meant by knowledge here has to do with the might of Allaah and His vengeance upon those who disobey Him, and the terrors that occur at death, in the grave and on the Day of Resurrection).
Muslim men and women have to be inclined to choose righteous and serious friends in their lives, who will help them to make good use of their time and strive for the sake of Allaah with seriousness and steadfastness, good and righteous people whose example they can follow. Bilaal ibn Sa'd said: "I saw them [the Sahaabah] jokingly pretending to fight over some goods, and laughing with one another, but when night came they were like monks."
Ibn 'Umar (may Allaah be pleased with him) was asked, "Did the Companions of the Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) laugh?" He said, "Yes, and the faith in their hearts was like mountains."
So you have to follow the example of such people, who were knights by day and monks (i.e., devoted worshippers) by night.
Narrated 'Abdullah bin Umarرضي الله عنه Allah's Messenger said, "A Muslim is a brother of another Muslim, so he should not oppress him, nor should he hand him over to an oppressor. Whoever fulfilled the needs of his brother, Allah will fulfill his needs; whoever brought his (Muslim) brother out of a discomfort, Allah will bring him out of the discomforts of the Day of Resurrection, and whoever screened a Muslim, Allah will screen him on the Day of Resurrection ."
The Messenger of Allah (sallAllaahu 'alayhi wa sallam) said:
'You must be truthful, for truthfulness leads to righteousness and righteousness leads to Paradise. A man will keep speaking the truth and striving to speak the truth until he will be recorded with Allah as a siddeeq (speaker of the truth). Beware of telling lies, for lying leads to immorality and immorality leads to Hellfire. A man will keep telling lies and striving to tell lies until he is recorded with Allah as a liar."
Ibn Abbas رضي الله عنه reports that Rasoolalah stated
A dead body is helpless in his grave as the drowning man. He keeps waiting( for duas) supplications from his father, mother, brother and friends. When he receives supplication from anyone, he becomes so delighted as if he has something better than everything on this earth. Definitely, Allah confers reward on the men in the grave equal to the mountains. Seeking forgiveness by the living is the gift for the dead.
The Prophet's (Sallallahu alayhi was sallam) words: "Whoever controls his anger at the time when he has the means to act upon it, Allah will call him before all of mankind on the Day of Resurrection, and will let him choose of the Hoor al-'Ayn whoever he wants."
(Reported by Aboo Daawood, 4777, and others. It is classified as Hasan in Sahih al-Jaami', 6518).
Some Ways To Control Anger
1 - Turning to Allah, and seeking refuge in Allah from Satan
2 - Staying silent.
3 - Change physical posture (either sit down or even lie down)
4 - Perform wudhu
5 - Remember the reward for controlling one's anger.
6 - Think about the example set by the Prophet Sallallahu alayhi wa sallam
7 - Ponder over the consequences of reacting in anger
This cannot be undone and I am sure it will be greatly appreciated.
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