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#16 [Permalink] Posted on 20th January 2019 01:05
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A few brothers here should take this beautiful advice. It seems some brothers must create dispute out of nothing again and again and again........ I think they want to be champion of debate and champion of rudeness too. Rude is rude no matter how much you claim it is straight talk. Please calm down and take a break.
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#17 [Permalink] Posted on 20th January 2019 03:13
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Jazak Allah for informing me that I have the ability to talk to GHOSTS. Shhhhhhhhhh!
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#18 [Permalink] Posted on 20th January 2019 03:14
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Good advice brother.
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#19 [Permalink] Posted on 20th January 2019 17:21
Prophet (saw) said,

"The most hated person in the sight of Allah is the most quarrelsome person." (Bukhari)
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#20 [Permalink] Posted on 21st January 2019 10:43
Imam Al-Shafi’i, may Allah have mercy on him, said,

“Arguing about the religion hardens the heart and produces resentment.”

(Siyar A’lām al-Nubalā’ 10/28)
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#21 [Permalink] Posted on 21st January 2019 10:56
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I hate arguments but some people turn every simple discussion into an argument that it becomes impossible to avoid.

JazakAllah for the reminder
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#22 [Permalink] Posted on 21st January 2019 11:02
Someone has to be the one to stop though. The one who stops first is not only the winner of the argument but also acting in accordance with what our deen tells us, so a winner overall too.
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#23 [Permalink] Posted on 21st January 2019 13:21
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I've never come to this forum and not seen the brother involved in some dispute and being very rude. Maybe it's just coincidence (at least a dozen times now). Insults such as jaahil, stupid, fool, arrogant, nafs, etc are often thrown. But it needs minimum two people to argue. Your fault is being that 2nd person. Just say salaam and walk away in future. Simple.
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#24 [Permalink] Posted on 21st January 2019 13:28
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Your fault is being that 2nd person. Just say salaam and walk away in future. Simple.

جزاك الله خيرا for the advice. I'll keep it in mind.
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#25 [Permalink] Posted on 21st January 2019 14:35

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When context and details are removed from an argument, it can be misunderstood.

Context...Context...Context...


[admin edit: retracted post not completely removed. Main message kept above]

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#26 [Permalink] Posted on 21st January 2019 15:04
This is not philosophy and yet it's amazing ;)

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#27 [Permalink] Posted on 21st January 2019 15:05
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Salaam
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#28 [Permalink] Posted on 21st January 2019 15:15
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KNOWLEDGE AND LOVE


Knowledge said to me, Love is madness;
Love said to me, Knowledge is calculation—

O slave of calculation, do not be a bookworm!
Love is Presence entire, Knowledge nothing but a Veil.

The universe is moved by the warmth of Love;
Knowledge deals with the Attributes, Love is a vision of the Essence;

Love is peace and permanence, Love is Life and Death:
Knowledge is the rising question, Love is the hidden answer.

Kingdom, faith and faqr are all miracles of Love;
The crowned kings and lords are base slaves of Love;

Love is the Space and the Creation, Love is Time and Earth!
Love is conviction entire, and conviction is the key!

The luxury of destination is forbidden in the religion of Love;
Fighting the storms is permitted, but the comfort of the shore is forbidden;

Lightning is permitted to Love, Harvest is forbidden.
Knowledge is the child of the Book, Love is the mother of the Book.

Allama Iqbal Rh
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#29 [Permalink] Posted on 21st January 2019 15:30
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I've left part of it only and removed the rest of the retracted post. If anyone's rated accordingly can update it. Jazakallah
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#30 [Permalink] Posted on 21st January 2019 15:38
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Philosophy And Religion


Wherefore this succession of day and night?
And what are the sun and the starry heavens?

Am I in my land or in banishment?
The vastness of this desert fills me with fright.

I know not the enigma of this life of mine;
I know not where to find one who knows.

Avicenna wonders where he came from;
And Rumi wonders where he should go.

With every wayfarer I pace a little;
I know not yet who my leader is.

Allama Iqbal Rh
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