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#1 [Permalink] Posted on 15th September 2015 11:36
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I married around 10 months ago. The marriage was of my own choice. After my marriage, the relationship between me and my mother has gotten progressively worse. I love my parents with all of my heart, and would do anything to please them. Every month i give at least half of my salary to my parents to help them out. Every time i mention my wife, or help her in any ways it sets my mother off into a terrible mood swing where says whatever comes to her mind. A small example is where i gave our maid some money to wash my clothes. My mother got extremely angry and my father asked me to leave the house. My firstborn is to be born in October, and i decided to get our marriage room decorated. This displeased my mother so much so, that me and my wife have not been able to go back home and are staying at her parents house. During, all this time, my wife , although not perfect, HAS made a try to get along with my parents.

I am extremely worried as to what to do. If i move out of the house, i fear my parents will never forgive me, but if i stay there i fear my wife will give up and leave me. Islam preaches kindness to parents, and i still love them for whatever they have done for me. What can i do. Please offer me some guidense.

Kind Regards
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#2 [Permalink] Posted on 15th September 2015 12:14
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#3 [Permalink] Posted on 15th September 2015 17:03
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#4 [Permalink] Posted on 16th September 2015 00:19
Mashaallah brother mateensajjad, you are an inspiration.
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