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Ask someone something and all of a sudden you don't get a respond. 3 Weeks later they respond apologizing that they were busy etc the same guy is on WhatsApp at 03:50 everyday. He is replying on forums updating his blog but absent when you need something.:)
Alhumdolillah I don't need anything for myself but its usually for the Mosque or for some other Muslim or Islamic cause and happens to me all the time.
People whom I consider friends don't respond.
A business man "friend" asks and makes public statements that Deobandees need to get into Media and have Internet Radios etc. So I approach him about "Muftisays" and Maulana Yasin and donating to them.
No response and conspicuously missing from Salah or always in a hurry.
2 weeks later I purposely catch him about Muftisays…Well I don’t know who this Maulana Yasin is, not sure about it…
Give him Maulana’s number, no update again for 2 weeks.
2 weeks later I purposely catch him about Muftisays…Well lost the number give it to me again…
Give him the number again…
2 weeks later I don’t mention Muftisays or Maulana Yasin just chit-chat
Our relationship is back to normal see him regularly, replies to everything no issues.
One of the leading Shaykhs in UK tells his Mureeds “Muadh Khan” is like my son. I give 1 pound to my kids and Muadh Khan every 10th of Muharram. You are my Mureeds but he is my true friend! You are Mureeds but he is family!
Tells you to pick him up and chill out or take him to the Tours with you etc etc etc
Don’t attend Majalis; don’t become Ba’yt the same Shaykh doesn’t even bother finding out whether “Muadh Khan” is dead or alive for years...
This cannot be undone and I am sure it will be greatly appreciated.