Alhamdulillah, we on this site completely accept and are happy with every aspect of Deen.
Many people i know are married to cousins and so far i have not seen any disabilities or any negative consequences. These marraiges to cousins were definitely not forced.
No I will not give up
[edit: words close to Kufr removed - This is your last warning. Please answer everyone's replies to your argument but simply causing Fitnah will result in a ban]