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#106 [Permalink] Posted on 7th August 2019 16:04
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#107 [Permalink] Posted on 7th August 2019 17:43
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I've been waiting and praying for Allah's mercy since last year ramadhan, but it doesn't seem to be coming. Each time I think things have stabilised it suddenly gets worse. Now yesterday I get told that my son has an incurable disease for which there is no medication or treatment. People keep telling me all illness has a cure and I believe that, but I have been searching high and low and spending all my money to find this cure. I have been in contact with the top Crohn's Disease doctors and professors of the world. I am very close to getting my son on to the latest treatment for Crohn's Disease which is not even available or even known to the general public. But just when I thought things might be ok, suddenly a new illness dropped on our lap which absolutely no one can do anything about. No western doctors, no herbal doctors, no one.

Even if Allah took my son's life I would be able to do sabr. But instead he is alive, but not living. He is bound to the house and hospital 24 hours a day. This is WORSE than torture. You know i have been physically and psychologically tortured in Afghanistan. So when I say this is worse than torture I know what I am talking about. I have been on death row waitung to get hanged. I had cell mates who were executed. We all understood that waiting for the death sentence and not knowing when it was going to come was ten times worse than the execution itself. This feels the same.

When I was lying in my cell I thought to myself if I ever get out and have a son I will name him Muhammad Umar. I will try and keep him away from all haram as best as I can. I will prepare him mentally and physically to go out in Allah's path. I had that son. I named him Muhammad Umar. We made many sacrifices to give him the best upbringing we could and keep him away from the harams of the West. But as soon as he became an adult his health started breaking down. Then his mind started breaking down. I understand he belongs to Allah and I don't have a problem if Allah takes him back. But instead of taking him back Allah is torturing us. I know we only get tested to our capacity. But this has reached beyond my capacity. This has gone from being a test to being a punishment.

The reason i write on here is because I am worried about my iman and my son's iman. My son had never missed a single namaaz in his life from the age of 12. He would wake up himself for fajr. But now he has lost hope and doesn't care about his namaaz. Honestly if Allah just takes my son with his iman intact I would be happy.
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#108 [Permalink] Posted on 7th August 2019 18:03
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Brother it is extremely crucial for you to get counseling as soon as possible. It will inshaAllah help both you and your son to overcome the psychological trauma. You should find a pious Muslim counselor near you or alternatively you may consider the following resources from Khalil Center, a US based Islamic-oriented behavorial and wellness center. It was recommended by Mufti Ebrahim Desai Sahab.

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You can call/chat through their Crisis Helpline as a 1st step at:

khalilcenter.com/crises-helpline/

[If you reside outside the US, you may use Skype to contact them, see website or contact them by email for further details].

You may also schedule online therapy using the following link:

portal.khalilcenter.com/khalil_landing
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#109 [Permalink] Posted on 7th August 2019 19:45
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I cannot even begin to comprehend what you must be going through. You've shared this with us and believe me I get depressed just at the thought of what you must be going through.

I don't have any advice for you because a lot is easier said than done and none of us can know how difficult certain advices are to follow when you're going through an ordeal compared to when you're not so I will ask you to pray for mental and emotional strength from Allah and leave the rest to Him because we are truly weak.
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#110 [Permalink] Posted on 7th August 2019 21:58
May Allah help you and ease your situation brother.
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#111 [Permalink] Posted on 7th August 2019 22:10
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#112 [Permalink] Posted on 7th August 2019 22:21
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May Allah help you and ease your situation brother. I really apologize if I have offended you in any way. I didn't mean to hurt you.
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#113 [Permalink] Posted on 8th August 2019 13:59
The previous bad times passed
This time will pass too

In the mean time Allah ta'ala fortify your heart with strong Imaan so that it passes to your beloved son, heart to heart
Muhammad Umar is in our du'a
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#114 [Permalink] Posted on 10th August 2019 03:13
Dua e Saifi English Translation

Translation: In the name of Allah , the Entirely Merciful, the Especially Merciful. O Allah You are Allah(Lord) the clear King of truth, There is no God except You You are my Lord and i am Your servant . i did bad and i offended myself and i admit my sins,forgive my sins all sins, because there is no one who can forgive sins except You . o Allah

Translation: O Beneficent ,O The Most Merciful ,O Lord ,O The Forgiver and hider of faults, O the Re-warder of thankfulness O the forbearing,O The Generous ,O The Perfectly wise .O Allah i praise You and You are The One who deserve praise And You have made me special by assigning gifts from Your blessings and You have delivered towards me blessings of Omnipotence's and with it You have given me from Your Beneficence and You have prepared me with assurance of truth and You have granted me with Your Beneficence's which are being delivering towards me ,And You have gratified me by obviating adversities

Translation: from me and You gave me success , and You gave acceptance to my supplications whenever i call upon You as supplicator and whisper to You with mindedness and supplicate to You as Humble ,pure hearted and i expect from You , and i find You at all places , and for me protector,Present,Compassionate,Beneficent,Merciful and The Best Helper for me in all matters, and forgiver of sins and faults and Cover-er of faults and Your help is not far from me , and Your gratification even for the blink of eye

Translation: Whereas You have put me in the house of choice and consideration and thought so that You can see ,what i will send forth for the Eternal home and the place of stay. o My Lord i am Your liberated slave from all harms , straying deeds , all problems and all short comings,all blames and accidents and afflictions and from sorrows and that griefs which are prevalent upon me in this world due to different afflictions and due to occurent prevalent destiny and due to devilment of enemies . i do not remember You but as Good and do not see from You

Translation: but Your preeminence ,Your goodness is included for me and Your compassion on me is complete and Your kindness on me is adoptive and Your blessedness on me is continuous and Your Benediction on me is Everlasting and Your Beneficence's on me are too much . you have not lessened my refuge and You made true my hope and You remain my companion in my journeys and You respected me in my standings and You cured my sicknesses and You protected my organs and You gratified me in my going and returning and You have defended me against my enemies and You returned away from me the harms of those who want to harm me with evil and You

Translation: are sufficient for me from the evil of the jealous ones. therefore my praise for You is Everlasting and continuous, and ever living from one era to other era ,with all type of praises and purification's sincerely for Your remembrance for gaining Your will and with the true praise and glory and the sincere closeness and close relationship and oneness and sticking to glory with long worship and counting, You do not need anyone in Your Omnipotence and nor there is a share of anyone in Divinity , and no one could know Your knowledge and essence

Translation: ( Allah's refuge) that You are similar to different things and no one saw that things show discrepancy with Your plan and no one's illusion and sagacity can see Yours veils of unseen, therefore i am able to believe a limited portion of Your greatness , so far courage's cannot understand Your Highness , nor deep sagacity could find You. vision of seeing ones could not be able to reach Your Complacence of Seniority , attributes of Your nature and Persona are superior to the attributes of creature and from

Translation: the remembrance of remembering ones , Your greatness and Supremeness is High, therefore whatever thing You want to increase then no one can lessen it , and no one can increase the thing whom You want to lessen. when You were going to create the creature then no opponent force come forth You. and when You were creating the beings first time then no one stand against You , the tongues are not able to narrate Your attributes , wisdom's are surprised in apprehending Your Anagoge. O Lord how could the reality of Your attributes be understood? , O Allah You are the Absolute Ruler, The Compeller, The Pure one,. Your kingdom will never face downfall ,

Translation:in Your veils of unseen You are Ever-living Eternal , The Only One having no partner , and there is no Deity except You,nor there will be any Deity except You. In oceans of Your invisible world of Angels, manoeuvres of deep thinking are astonished, the heads of Kings are down due to Your fear, the faces are downhearted in front of Your fright and Dominence, and everything is amneable to Your Highness and respect and everything is obedient to Your Omnipotence and Finesse. and all heads are bend infront of You, scholars decisive

Translation: is nothing against You and contrivances are lost in appropriation of Your attributes, and who has pondered about it , his eye, wisdom and thought turn back to him tired , worried and astonished. O Allah all the praise is for You and copious and countless glorification , everlasting, endless, which will never lost in the invisible world of angels and which will never exterminate in the visible world of human.and which will not defected in word of anagoge. O Allah all the praise is for You for all that favours which are not counted by us

Translation: nor in the night when it returns nor in the day when it shines with its colours and sceneries , and which we possess , and on land and in water and morn and eve and while sleeping and awaking, in the last part of night and midday, and in every portion of day and night(we are receivinng) . O Allah it is all due to Your will and ability , that You gave me releif and You have protected me in the governorate of Your infallibility and purity. and Your blessing are always befalling upon me, and i remain secure from every annulment and preventiveness in Your contonuous blessings , You have not given me affliction and pain more than my strength

Translation: You are pleased with me in my every obedience , therefore O Allah You are the Real Divinity and there is none worthy of worship except You , You never become hidden and nothing is unknown from You and nor in invisible darknesses anything is being going far or losting from You, therfore whenever You want to do a thing ,it is done. O Allah i praise You as You praised Yourself and many more praises than the praises by laudators

Translation: or Your Glorification by gloorified people or the tawheed people call You the One or Your magnification by magnificent people , or Your gradualism by gradual people , or Your supremeness or Your remembrance or Your piousness by pious ones so that my praise become unparalell in every instant of eye or become less than the praise by all thank givers and oneness describers and sincere ones, and anagogics ,

Translation: and Divinity describers , an all Your gradualism and peace and remembrance describers and You are their Lord and You are all knowing of their conditions and are Lovable, Worthy of Reverence and Hidden from all creatures of every kind , animals and humans and jinns and plants. O Allah i turn my attention towards You on the expense of the blessingthat You have made decisive and vocalist on Your praise and how small and easy is the thing by which You have afflicted me and how big is the thing You have promised me, of Your thankfulness, my begining by You is with Your blessings from Your blessedness and vastness

Translation: and You have ordered me to be thankfulby truth and justice and You have promised me double reward and blessing upon thank, and You have gave me from Your sustenance which is vast and numerous and is great with respect to trust and power and Your pleasure and on expense of it You required from me praise and thanks which is easy and small and You releived me and saved me from affliction and bad destiny and You have not assigned me to afflictions and bad destiny and You gave me clothes of protection and You gave me ampleness and You have benefied

Translation: vastness for me and You have bestowed upon me Your blessing and You have made for me which is easy in saying and doing and You have made ample easy inention for me and You have made double for me the blessedness of nobility and excess of the blessing which You have promised me and You have given me the good news of high grade and You have made me chosen one through Your prophet , who is owner of great honour and prestige , and You have made this Prophet great from all Prophets with respect to preaching and due to very high grades and due to blessed intercession ,

Translation: and very close to Allah and one having clear arguement,Muhammad and peace and blessings of Allah upon him and all prophets and messengers. O Allah forgive me, my that fault which is only forgiven by You and which cannot be removed but only with Your forgiveness and mercy, and which cannot be expiated except by Your Blessedness and forgiveness and bestow upon me today and tonight and in this present month and in this present year ,true beleif which can ease my afflictions of this world and the world hereafter ,and grief of hereafter

Translation: and that beleif which make me Your infatuated and lover and make me persuaded towards that which is in Your treasures, and give me forgiveness and miracle and give me ability to be thankful for Your blessings and give me sustenance and give me success against my enemies because You are The Allah, having no partner and You are The One ,The Originator, The Exalted one, The Creator, The all listening, The all Knowing and there is no one who resist Your Decree nor anyone who repel Your predestination and i testify that You are my Lord and Lord of everything and Creator of heavens

Translation: and earths, and Knower of unknown and testification that You are The Highest the Greatest, The Supreme One , O Allah i ask You for steadfastness ,gidance and thankfulness on Your blessings and i am appealing You of best prayer and begger of all types of goodness from You which You know and i do not know , and i seek refuge from every that evil which You know which you know and seeker of forgiveness from You ,from every that sin which You know, Certainly You are The Knower of unseen and i seek Your refuge from tyranny of every tyrannt and lawlessness of every defiant and rebel and from jealousy of every

Translation: envious and from fraud of every fradulent and from fallacy of every fallacious and from hypocrisy of every hypocrite and from cruelity of every cruel and from lie of every lier and from magic of every magician and from the delight of the delighted one on my loss, and from maliciousness of malicious , with Your help i behest my enemies and on Your expense i expect love of my friends , companions and closeones, therefore for You is all praise , on the blessings, i am not able to enumerate or count your blessedness on every step, and Your colourful blessings which You have

Translation: bestowed upon me , therefore certainly You are Allah there is no Deity except You , You are eminent in creature , Your alleulia is that,hand of your bounty is untied, no one can cast back Your Decreeand no one is there to hassle with You in Your Kingdom, You are the Owner of people and their appurtenence, anywise You will, but they cannot be Owner of anything from You for as much You will , O Allah You are Allah , Doer of beautiful things ,The Generous, The Beneficent , The all Powerfull, The Creator of all power, The Everliving, The Pure one, sacred and Holy One in His Holy Light,

Translation: having veil of acclivity and honour and Greatness and You are covered with Your Light, and You are on Your Throne with Your Grandiose and Light, O Allah You are Aboriginal in Gratification, and of Great Blessedness , and of Great Honour and Owner of prespicuous Kingdom,and of vast Bounty and of complete Omnipotence, and of mature Finesse, therefore praise is for You, You have included me in the Ummah of Muhammad peace be upon him, he is superior to all the sons of Adam,to whom You have

Translation: blessed with honour and lift them on land and in water and gave them pure Sustenance and give them blessedness upon Your numerous Creature and You made me listening ,seeing ,having intact body and gave me protection and You have not indulged me in any loss of my body, and nor in any calamity of organs and nor You have stopped Your miracle upon me and good performance about me, and Your blessedness and blessings towards me , You are The One who have made Sustenance

Translation: vast for me, gave blessedness in this world and in the hereafter upon Your numerous creature ,therefore You have given me ears, by them i listen your ayahs, and You gave me such sagacity by which i can understand faith and You have given me eyes by them i observe Your Omnipotence and have given me such heart by which i recognize Your Greatness and You have given me such tongue which is vocalist of Your conversance ans such heart by which i know the reality of faith and Oneness,therefore due to Your blessedness i praise You and by Your will and ability I am Your remembring one and my self and soul is Your thankfull and is observer of Your truth ,therefore You are alive before every alive thing and You will be alive

Translation: after every alive thing ,while all living ones will die , and You are such alive that You do not get life as patrimony from any living, and Your Benevolence is not stopped from me anytime, and my hopes are in You always, the punishment of misfortune never befall upon me and abstrucenesses of continence never close on me and Your promises of Your blessings never become adersable,therefore if i don't remember Your Gratification on me but Your forgiveness for me and Your will and ability for me and acceptance of my supplications while O Allah i make my voice aloud with Your Oneness and Your glorification

Translation: and Dhikr and Greatness and Highness and Gradualism , You have made my destiny and You made me and when You want to made my visge You give me a good appearance and at the time of sustenanace You destined Sustenance for me so my thankfullness does not outlay me from this struggle ,therefore how i thought about Your great blessings and i cannot fonish thanking You for any of them. Therefore all praise is for You on all the salvations which cannot be approximated and in such proportion Your knowledge can secure,

Translation: and in such proportion your mercy is vast, and in such proportion Your Omnipotence can enclose ,and more than such proportion that You are more deserving and liable for this than Your creature... O Allah complete Your gratification Upon me for rest of my life as You have bestowed Your gratification upon me in my past life. O Allah i asl You and i find mediator towards You through Your oneness and Your gratification and Your thankfullness and Your gradualism and Your magnification and Your Greatness and Your Masterliness and Your Supremeness , Your Holiness,Your Light, Your Forgiveness

Translation: Your leniency,Your Mercy,Your Highness,Your honour, Your Knowledge , Your gratification, Your radiant,Your beauty,Your sublimity,Your dominence ,Your power,Your Omnipotence,Your Beneficence,Your Implortaion ,Your act of grace and on the expense of Your Prophet Muhammad peace be upon him from You, and all his brothers i-e Prophets and Messengers and their pious and pure Children, i ask You that You do not bereft me from Your mercies ,Your Beneficences ,sublimity and Your miracles because

Translation: there is no chance that due to excess of Forgiveness there will be hider of costiveness and You will be greived at it, and demerit in thankfullness of Your Blessings does not lessen Your Forgiveness and nor Your Vast Forgiveness can lessen Your treasures, and nor Your great bounty is affected by handsome or grand abstinence and nor You have fear of hunger that You are afflicted by it, and nor You have fear of annihilation or destitution which can harm Your bounty, O Lord of Jibrael

Translation: O Lord of Mikaeel,O Lord of Israfeel, O Lord of Izraeel, O Lord of Muhammad peace be upon him,help me ,O Allah bless me with a heart which is fearful,humble and obedient and bless me with Your obedient and tolerant body and true beleif and tongue vocaling You and praising You, and an eye crying with Your fear and love, and substenance vast and legitimate,and benefiting knowledge and pious children and long life and bless me with a beleiving and pious wife and accept my repentance and do not immunize and infatuate with Your pretence

Translation: and nor make me forget Your remembrance and not uncover me and not dissappoint me from Your mercy and not aloof me from Your refuge and closeness and give me refuge from Your anger and reluctancy and do not dissappoint me from Your mercy and be my loyal helper in every fear and terror ,in every loneliness You be my companion , and keep me safe from every virulence and give me releif from every problem, calamity, hardship and disgrace ,humilation and shotage

Translation: and sickness and hunger and thirst and deceit and affliction and anger and hardship and extremeness in both worlds and You fulfill Your promise O Allah make me high and don't make me fall and obviate afflictions from me and don't take me far from Yourself and bless me,do not bereft me,and honour me and do not humilate me ,bestow Your blessings upon me in excess and do not lessen them and have mercy on me and do not give me punishment and give me victory and do not give me dispersal and protect me in Your delitescence and do not humilate me and give me importance,and do not give importance to anyone on me nor in this world

Translation: and nor in the hereafter. O Allah aloof my vagry and destroy my griefs and destroy my enemies and give me all the goodnessof this world and hereafter with Your mercy and blessedness, O The Most Merciful of all the merciful ones. O Allah what You have decided for me with Your will and blessedness i have started this task, help me in ending this in a good manner because You are Omnipotent on all things . O the One by Whom order skies and earths exist .

Translation: O The One who has prevented the skies to fall on earth but with Your Will, o The One when You will to do a thing You say be and it is. Therefore He is The One in Whom hand is the key of the unseen world of angels and to You we will return and blessings of Allah upon our Master Muhammad and his family and his companions who are pure , and senp copious peace on them all . O The Most Merciful of all the merciful ones, and the most Helping one and all the praise is for The Lord of The Worlds.

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#115 [Permalink] Posted on 10th August 2019 22:05

Whoever recites these ten kalimaat on the night of Arafah 1000 times and then asks Allah for anything apart from sin or breaking ties of kinship, Allah will grant it to him. It is in a hadith.


سُبْحَانَ الَّذِي فِي السَّمَاءِ عَرْشُهُ،


سبحان الذي في الأرض مَوْطِئُهُ،


سُبْحَانَ الَّذِي فِي الْبَحْرِ سَبِيلُهُ،


سُبْحَانَ الَّذِي فِي النَّارِ سُلْطَانُهُ،


سُبْحَانَ الَّذِي فِي الْجَنَّةِ رَحْمَتُهُ،


سُبْحَانَ الَّذِي فِي السَّمَاءِ رِزْقُهُ،


سُبْحَانَ الَّذِي فِي الْقُبُورِ قَضَاؤُهُ،


سُبْحَانَ الَّذِي رَفَعَ السَّمَاءَ، 


سُبْحَانَ الَّذِي وَضَعَ الأَرْضَ، 


سُبْحَانَ الذي لا منجا مِنْهُ إِلا إِلَيْهَ


Update: This hadith is weak.

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#116 [Permalink] Posted on 15th August 2019 17:56
Prophet Ayyub علیه السلام and the trials that struck him

He had plenty of livestock, cattle and crops, many children and beautiful houses, and he was tested in these things, losing every thing he had. Then he was tested with regard to his body, and he was left alone on the edge of the city and there was no one who treated him with compassion apart from his wife, who took care of him. It was said that it reached the stage where she was in need, so she started to serve people (to earn money) for his sake. The Prophet said:

«أَشَدُّ النَّاسِ بَلَاءً الْأَنْبِيَاءُ، ثُمَّ الصَّالِحُونَ، ثُمَّ الْأَمْثَلُ فَالْأَمْثَل»

(The people who are tested the most severely are the Prophets, then the righteous, then the next best and the next best). According to another Hadith:

«يُبْتَلَى الرَّجُلُ عَلَى قَدْرِ دِينِهِ، فَإِنْ كَانَ فِي دِينِهِ صَلَابَةٌ زِيدَ فِي بَلَائِه»

(A man will be tested according to his level of religious commitment; the stronger his religious commitment, the more severe will be his test.) The Prophet of Allah, Ayyub, upon him be peace, had the utmost patience, and he is the best example of that. Yazid bin Maysarah said: "When Allah tested Ayyub, upon him be peace, with the loss of his family, wealth and children, and he had nothing left, he started to focus upon the remembrance of Allah, and he said: `I praise You, the Lord of lords, Who bestowed His kindness upon me and gave me wealth and children, and there was no corner of my heart that was not filled with attachment to these worldly things, then You took all of that away from me and You emptied my heart, and there is nothing to stand between me and You. If my enemy Iblis knew of this, he would be jealous of me. ' When Iblis heard of this, he became upset. And Ayyub, upon him be peace, said: `O Lord, You gave me wealth and children, and there was no one standing at my door complaining of some wrong I had done to him. You know that. I used to have a bed prepared for me, but I forsook it and said to myself: You were not created to lie on a comfortable bed. I only forsook that for Your sake.''' This was recorded by Ibn Abi Hatim. Ibn Abi Hatim recorded from Abu Hurayrah that the Prophet said:

«لَمَّا عَافَى اللهُ أَيُّوبَ أَمْطَرَ عَلَيْهِ جَرَادًا مِنْ ذَهَبٍ، فَجَعَلَ يَأْخُذُ مِنْهُ بِيَدِهِ وَيَجْعَلُهُ فِي ثَوْبِهِ، قَالَ: فَقِيلَ لَهُ: يَا أَيُّوبُ أَمَا تَشْبَعُ؟ قَالَ: يَا رَبِّ وَمَنْنَيشْبَعُ مِنْ رَحْمَتِك»

(When Allah healed Ayyub, He sent upon him a shower of golden locusts, and he started to pick them up and gather them in his garment. It was said to him, "O Ayyub, have you not had enough'' He said, "O Lord, who can ever have enough of Your mercy) The basis of this Hadith is recorded in the Two Sahihs, as we shall see below.

وَءَاتَيْنَـهُ أَهْلَهُ وَمِثْلَهُمْ مَّعَهُمْ

(and We restored his family to him (that he had lost) and the like thereof along with them) It was reported that Ibn `Abbas said: "They themselves were restored to him.'' This was also narrated by Al-`Awfi from Ibn `Abbas. Something similar was also narrated from Ibn Mas`ud and Mujahid, and this was the view of Al-Hasan and Qatadah. Mujahid said: "It was said to him, `O Ayyub, your family will be with you in Paradise; if you want, We will bring them back to you, or if you want, We will leave them for you in Paradise and will compensate you with others like them.' He said, `No, leave them for me in Paradise.' So they were left for him in Paradise, and he was compensated with others like them in this world.''

رَحْمَةً مِّنْ عِندِنَا

(as a mercy from Ourselves) means, `We did that to him as a mercy from Allah towards him.'

وَذِكْرَى لِلْعَـبِدِينَ

(and a Reminder for all those who worship Us.) means, `We made him an example lest those who are beset by trials think that We do that to them because We do not care for them, so that they may take him as an example of patience in accepting the decrees of Allah and bearing the trials with which He tests His servants as He wills.' And Allah has the utmost wisdom with regard to that.

Source: Tafseer Ibn Katheer
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#117 [Permalink] Posted on 20th August 2019 10:30
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My mind does not constantly reflect what I have written in this thread. Sometimes it does, sometimes it doesn't. Sometimes I regret what I have written. Non the less I will not delete anything as one day I will be able to go back and read everything and reflect upon what I have written.

I have been in hospital with my son since last Friday. I am writing this sat in hospital. Alhamdulillah he is not in any pain, but has lost a lot of weight and strength. His clothes do not even fit him properly now.

There is more dignity in death than this. For me one of the worst thing is that we are having go rely on the non Muslims. I know there is nothing wrong in this, but because we are in need of them we are forced to make compromises with our hayaa, dignity, and Islamic values. My whole family has always been as independent as possible from the non Muslims. But now Allah has put is in a situation where we are left with no choice, but to seek help from them. Make dua Allah takes us out of this situation.
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#118 [Permalink] Posted on 20th August 2019 15:40
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There's nothing wrong with needing non-Muslims for expertise. There's everything wrong in needing non-Islaam.
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#119 [Permalink] Posted on 20th August 2019 20:22
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My young relative. Who I mentioned in the following post on this thread, some time back. www.muftisays.com/forums/14-peoples-say/12307-it-seems-th...

Has had over dozen operations...Still more to come. They placed a colostomy bag on him as a baby, then when was about 7 they replaced it with a tube on his stomach. So every evening he has to have a flush out. Were laxative medication is pumped into his intestines via the tube, has to spend close to an hour and a half in the bathroom. For his intestines to be fully flushed once that is done, he does not need to visit a bathroom ,for next 24 hours. But still has to wear plastic incontinence underpants Just in case.

He went through a couple of years when he was 10 severely depressed. The hospital referred to him a child psychologist for a couple of years.

During that time , he even went through a period of asking why me ...? Allah must really hate me?
But as he has gotten older is managing to deal with his symptoms, rarely if ever complains. And is doing well at school.

If Psychological help or counselling is available you should take it. Having said that you need to find some sort of counselling yourself. You cant help him through this if you are depressed or in a negative mindset yourself.





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#120 [Permalink] Posted on 20th August 2019 20:31
In addition to the above... Organisations, like Crohns and Colitis Uk. Are specifically for this type if situation.

There members are people who are going through this themselves or have relative who are going through this.

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